I'm 16, and I met a boy online a year older than me, we started dating and he called me home within 3 days, i went there cause I was excited to meet him, but we did something we shouldn't, although I did keep saying no, but he kept saying just once, and at the end I said yes, and after knowing what happened to me, I still went to meet him once more, and this time I started bleeding, I knew this was gonna happen, but I still went there, so I think I'm not the victim here. He left me the same say saying he's parents found out, was it really sexual assault, or was I just dumb, my sis found out not long after, and since then she keeps taunting me...

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

That's rape. Simple. I won't sugarcoat it. You are a victim. Block that guy or inform his family of what he did. You said no to him, he pressurized you. That's coercion and that is STILL rape. And no victim is perfect okay? You went back to him, babe you are 16 years old. You aren;t mature yet, you don't know much about the world, it is not your fault. Don't blame yourself. I would say inform a trusted adult of what happened. You could get pregnant too, so you need to take pills, and I would say ask your mom about that. I am not informed about these things. But all I can advise you for future is that NEVER let any boy pressurise you or coerce you into something you don't want to do. No is a sentence. There is no but. If they can't respect your no, they are probably someone you shouldnt keep in your life.