Someone once asked...

“I'm 13 and honestly? everyone around me has been in a relationship or has had someone who confess to them. Sometimes I think smn likes me, but I've never received a confession. Is that stupid?? also I've heard ppl say 'oh it's fine ur not in a relationship ur still young have a lot more to experience yadadada' is it really? cos idk mayb I want to experience it while I'm young yk? idk it feels stupid to think this I'm young and shit but like UGHH”

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Someone answered with kindness...

To be honest, it’s actually completely fine to not be in relationship when you’re 13. You have a lot of time ahead of you, and you shouldn’t worry so much that other people are in a relationship and you aren’t.And also it’s not at all stupid to think someone likes you even when you haven’t received a confession. Just don’t have too many expectations from that person and you’ll be fine.I totally understand that you want to have a relationship now, but things take time.hope u have a good day

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Another soul answered...

I can understand your feelings. As someone who overcame this exact situation. The true art of love is waiting. "The pain of falling in love with the wrong person is greater than the pain of waiting for right person".I got my first love at 19 . I waited a long time. Being in delusional about who I am gonna love truly.Now I am in a happy relationship. In this journey you will also learn love is not only relationship its beyond that too!!

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Another soul answered...

Hey there fellow stranger, i completely understand where you're coming from. I myself have been through something very similar during my early teens, currently I'm 21 and let me tell you something, wanting to be desired by someone is completely normal, but you need to understand that just because someone hasn't been able to see you for who you are and hasn't confessed their liking for you, doesn't automatically mean that it's a judgement of your worth or that there's no one out there for you, i hate to sound like a cliché but yes, you are young and i truly believe that things come to you at the right time and it will only happen when it's supposed to it. Till then have fun being single cause the dating market is badd😭, not tryna scare you but you might miss being single. So have fun for now. Xoxo

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