Idk where to start but it's long story of somebody have time can check this
So I'm 20yr F, I have a bestfriend she is my bf for almost 10yrs we were like so close and then came her boyfriend for real Idk how the hell she said ok to that punk head actually she is muslim and I'm hindu , she already was in one side with a boy from teenage and in our 3rd yr starting she realised she was wasting time on him and not achieving the dreams she had so decided to move on and i was happy for her bc she not using her potential in anything at all , so I was happy and then. Came a boy proposing to her at first she didn't accept him but she kept talking with in insta i asked her y she doing this and she told I feel like I'm seeing my younger self in him if someone tell me like this in that age I would have moved on earlier and this wouldn't happened, this is the reason she told but I told her he will not go down that like easily and like I said he started to chase her like talking with her going to place she go to talk to her and she falled and hoped he would give her a future she believed and him .she said yes to him
Yk can ask me your frnd is finally having a good relationship but no at all I have my instinct that kept telling me he is not going to take care her properly and he is going to separate us and it became true 🙃
He total of what he was before she said yess and he was hell possessive and he put some rules like you can't speak to others while on call with me not even a word like bro I'm also included in that rule that I can't speak to her
It's not like I'm going to kept interpret there talk
I only talk when I need something that's all
That at all not allowed
And he kept fighting with her for silly reasons, those reasons seriously i was like are you for real
And in muslim there a rule like girls can't talk to boys all like that
And bring it that up here told her she have to unfollow all the boys in Instagram and can't talk to any boy 🤦🏻‍♀️ , she fight him for that , it's not at all like she was filtering with every boys she only talk someone she knows for yrs that all like this many things happen and he doesn't even take care good , she was getting continuously getting sick after this my hater for him go big and someday as usual there had fight after there finished their fight he asked her to go with her to eat that time we are in clg and I'm also with her I told her I'm not coming you go if came I will not talk nice with him and face reactions also I can't change but she didn't listen to me and dragged me their and like I said I can't change my reactions bc he was showing off her infront of me like he own ik there are lovers but I'm there too know and after we left home he brings that to her with fight and he told his parents about this and his mother talked to her and his mother talked bad about me and she said I don't want your son and he left her and then she seemed she can't leave him so go back to him to ask forgiveness and he totally acted like jerk and kept fighting and lastly said if your friend was with you I can't be with you so leave her , so she did and i cried for 1 day and next day she caught by her parents in her home and she called me for emotional support and like idiot i go for her , she left her phone in home so she used my phone to call him to tell about this but that jerk started to fight about why she was calling from my phone instead of saying consulting her and me and her talked for hours and decided we can't leave eachother for someone who just walked now so we kept our friendship secret from.him and he is in thought like we are not in contact or seeing eachother but not we are together only but with distance not like before , sometimes I get so hurt by her behaviour bc of him , she also can't him and me , and we also go to college together only now that also we do it in secret like theif and he said to block my contact and she did and she didn't blocked in WhatsApp so we chat in it , i want like what the fuck I did wrong he not at all aslo not taking good care of her and I'm the one getting these treatments and hurting
After somedays I get used to it
And one day I asked her if this happen to me what will you do she first told I will cut him off and then told if he was the one for you I will go away it's your life I can't make more difficult from my side
In my case I can't leave her that's for sure and she also need me
But i kept getting sometimes and afterwards I will be normalised like i can understand her side also she also going through alot...
So that's it I have it so many days so I want to pour it out so if guys thought anything about it tell me 👋🏻

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Idk where to start but it's long story of somebody have time can check this 
So I'm 20yr F, I have a bestfriend she is my bf for almost 10yrs we were like so close and then came her boyfriend for real Idk how the hell she said ok to that punk head actually she is muslim and I'm hindu , she already was in one side with a boy from teenage and in our 3rd yr starting she realised she was wasting time on him and not achieving the dreams she had so decided to move on and i was happy for her bc she not using her potential in anything at all , so I was happy and then. Came a boy proposing to her at first she didn't accept him but she kept talking with in insta i asked her y she doing this and she told I feel like I'm seeing my younger self in him if someone tell me like this in that age I would have moved on earlier and this wouldn't happened, this is the reason she told but I told her he will not go down that like easily and like I said he started to chase her like talking with her going to place she go to talk to her and she falled and hoped he would give her a future she believed and him .she said yes to him 
Yk can ask me your frnd is finally having a good relationship but no at all I have my instinct that kept telling me he is not going to take care her properly and he is going to separate us and it became true 🙃 
He total of what he was before she said yess and he was hell possessive and he put some rules like you can't speak to others while on call with me not even a word like bro I'm also included in that rule that I can't speak to her 
It's not like I'm going to kept interpret there talk 
I only talk when I need something that's all 
That at all not allowed 
And he kept fighting with her for silly reasons, those reasons seriously i was like are you for real 
And in muslim there a rule like girls can't talk to boys all like that 
And bring it that up here told her she have to unfollow all the boys in Instagram and can't talk to any boy 🤦🏻‍♀️ , she fight him for that , it's not at all like she was filtering with  every boys she only talk someone she knows for yrs that all like this many things happen and he doesn't even take care good , she was getting continuously getting sick after this my hater for him go big and someday as usual there had fight after there finished their fight he asked her to go with her to eat that time we are in clg and I'm also with her I told her I'm not coming you go if came I will not talk nice with him and face reactions also I can't change but she didn't listen to me and dragged me their and like I said I can't change my reactions bc he was showing off her infront of me like he own ik there are lovers but I'm there too know and after we left home he brings that to her with fight and he told his parents about this and his mother talked to her and his mother talked bad about me and she said I don't want your son and he left her and then she seemed she can't leave him so go back to him to ask forgiveness and he totally acted like jerk and kept fighting and lastly said if your friend was with you I can't be with you so leave her , so she did and i cried for 1 day and next day she caught by her parents in her home and she called me for emotional support and like idiot i go for her , she left her phone in home so she used my phone to call him to tell about this but that jerk started to fight about why she was calling from my phone instead of saying consulting her and me and her talked for hours and decided we can't leave eachother for someone who just walked now so we kept our friendship secret from.him and he is in thought like we are not in contact or seeing eachother but not we are together only but with distance not like before , sometimes I get so hurt by her behaviour bc of him , she also can't him and me , and we also go to college together only now that also we do it in secret like theif and he said to block my contact and she did and she didn't blocked in WhatsApp so we chat in it , i want like what the fuck I did wrong he not at all aslo not taking good care of her and I'm the one getting these treatments and hurting 
After somedays I get used to it 
And one day I asked her if this happen to me what will you do she first told I will cut him off and then told if he was the one for you I will go away it's your life I can't make more difficult from my side 
In my case I can't leave her that's for sure and she also need me 
But i kept getting sometimes and afterwards I will be normalised like i can understand her side also she also going through alot...
So that's it I have it so many days so I want to pour it out so if guys thought anything about it tell me 👋🏻

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Wtf that guy is doing or she is blind bro for sure ...someone make her understand... First she needs priorities herself..and stop loving that trash