Idk from where should I start me and my ex broke up he broke up with me but we both still love each other he just thinks this relationship won’t be happy because I had insecurities about my past and I’ve hide them and when he asked about it I didn’t say him fully now he lost trust on me he is treating so cold and rude should I ask for another chance or wait ? I already asked him he said give me some time till that don’t call or text and we have been in no contact for many weeks what should I do

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Babe, if he really loved you, he would try to help you to get out that insecurity from you!! Everyone have their own insecurities, and the one who truly loves you, would own that insecurity, he won't break up. Maybe he was waiting an opportunity to break up with you, and aren't insecurity meant to be hidden? Bcz that's what insecurity is!! If you hid it and you told half truth he should try to understand why you even have those insecurity in first place! Love is always not bubbly pinky scoobie doobie! It's all ups and downs, lows and unhappy days aswell! Don't try to reconcile with him, instead work on those insecurities and don't let anyone snatch that smile from your face! Ocean accross, people want you to be happy! And i hope you get rid of your insecurity and love yourself without any barrier!!