“I worry that I've fallen for a close friend of mine, and that I enjoy her company more than my girlfriend's. It's already reached the point of cheating (though not sex) and I don't know whether to break up with her only to immediately move to someone else. In addition, how can I be sure that if I do it'll work if things can change so suddenly?”

Another soul answered...

You can't be sure that things will work but not breaking up with your girlfriend knowing your heart belongs to someone else is unfaithful to her and you. I know it might seem like a big jump right now but the thing about life is you won't know the next step you js gotta follow your heart yk. If you know you like your friend more then you should really go for it because there's no point in dating someone you don't want to openly love. You have to let go of what others might think of you because this is your life if you died tomorrow you would most likely regret not breaking up with her. But it's your choice. In the end you're the only one who gets to decide.

Another soul answered...

Dude u should just leave ur girlfriend...if u try being in ur girl's shoe u would feel decived and that exactly what u r doing, the best u can do is to leave......and if u r staying in that relationship just cause u feel likee confused that ur new relationship with ur close frnd would work or not..that entirely wrong Its like decieving everyone including ur true feelings..don't make it more complicating just leave that relationship. Even if u become the bad guy .... isn't it somewhere ur fault?? But after leaving atleast u can do what u want also ur girlfriend would be free from being cheated and stuff the whole time..