“I went through a breakup a few weeks ago, and honestly I loved her more than I loved myself, she says she wants to focus on herself but we all know it's that one bs excuse. I've seen and heard many things that leads me to believe that she has a crush on another guy, I didn't confront her about it, we agreed to stay friends because she begged me to. It's not even about romance anymore I just genuinely care for this person, but she's acting really cold and rude to me for no reason. When I asked her about it, she said that she's "changed" and if I can't handle it, I should leave her life. While she can say every nice thing there is about the guy she probably has a crush on. So her behavior is not on everyone but only targetted to me. What should I do with all this? I'm just lost”

Another soul answered...

tbh ..i think what i learnt recently is that " no one waits for no one" that means instead of getting hurt ..you should practically leave ...ik it would hurtful... because come one you loved her with all your heart..but the main question is ..Did she? Did she love u the way u loved her or wanted her to? and that paractically answers ur problem's solution. tbh she kept u for her own selfish reason ..even though knowing that u still having feelings for her and she is treating u badly for the same feeling...so here is ur solution ..leave ...leave because no one deserves to be treated badly ...leave because u r more worthy for other things..and focus on loving yourself...use that same love to love yourself...take ur time to heal !!!

Another soul answered...

I think u alr got the answer from her side , so u still love her let it be but maybe she not , soo dont drag this much or dont be desperate abt her u are actually worth broo u sincerely loved her but sometimes people teach actual life lessons like this and this is where we actually evolve right ?? knowing our worth , it may take time to moveon and all just try to make distractions , someday u will really find one , ur ntng less but just let it go bro , u have family frnds and all try to spend with them, focus on ur thing ur career ur intrests have a gud day .