Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Sometimes people don't even realise you are mean. But when I were particularly too quick or slightly rude I write letters—handwritten by me in my home in complete silence. I usually start the message I am writing on the paper by greeting the person I am writing to and then saying a little about myself and then starting with things I love about the person and that i truly adore afterwards I slowly build my way through writing what i might have done wrong and then apologising. Many times especially when I apologise in person people give me some really confused looks almost as if didn't see them quite down and probably feel pained. That's why because I am not exactly talkative but I try to be careful, I write letters.