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“i was in relationship with a guy of my college since March 2025, i dont know if i was in love with him ir it was just attraction. i told him that i dont like him being friends with other girls even his cousins and he said okay i wont talk to em but one day i saw his story in which he was holding a girl's hand. and it happened 4 times, sometimes he was busy that he couldnt even text me that im busy. and my college again started from august 2026, i have a bestfriend and we are friends for 2 years but one day he confessed to me and i told him that i dont wanna be in a relationship but we both promised eachother that we wont find someone else but one day i saw my ex but we didnt say anything, and he returned my stuff, and i messaged him that why he did it. then he asked me for patch up. i got to know that i havent moved on from him and we again begun to talk. i didnt tell my bff but one night i did. it was my first call with my bff and when he heard my voice he cried. i felt bad. i didnt know what to say. i told him bout my ex and everything. i told him that i didnt realize i was playing with my own bff's feelings and asked him to move on but he didnt. we again talked bout it after a week and he said he is going to do something but i handled the situation. and for my bff i broke up with my bf. now idk what to do. whenever i see my ex those feelings come to me again. please tell me what to do and whom to choose :)”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Choose the one who you likes listen what your heart says but don't hurt them they also have feelings

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Another soul answered...

You're a red flag 🚩🚩 You ask him not to talk to any girls including his cousin (wthhhh!). And you have very close male bestie haha 😂. You did a good job leaving him. He's better of frm this drama fr. You can see the priorities here ( left ur ex for bff!!) You don't have any feelings for him , you just like the attention that there's 2 men chasing you.

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