I was in relationship with a guy for 2 years and i proposed him first but he start liking me and then bcz of my some things he lost trust in me but again all the things become good after my apology then suddenly a day i was using twitter and i saw his id where he was speaking rubbish and using abuse language .I told him bout his behaviour so he started manipulation and he make me like that I ve done the mistake and he is pure and again i was attached to him so i contacted him and tell him that his actions hurted me alot and i was crying weeping then he said that talking stage is haram in islam before nikkah and he left me and blocked me ....and it has been one year....he contacted me after this 3 to 4 times but not as my lover but as a stranger and like wishes for results etc ......i cant move on what to do
Alot to tell but i m weeping

Question

I was in relationship with a guy for 2 years and i proposed him first but he start liking me and then bcz of my some things he lost trust in me but again all the things become good after my apology then suddenly a day i was using twitter and i saw his id where he was speaking rubbish and using abuse language .I told him bout his behaviour so he started manipulation and he make me like that I ve done the mistake and he is pure and again i was attached to him so i contacted him and tell him that his actions hurted me alot and i was crying weeping then he said that talking stage is haram in islam before nikkah and he left me and blocked me ....and it has been one year....he contacted me after this 3 to 4 times but not as my lover but as a stranger and like wishes for results etc ......i cant move on what to do 
Alot to tell but i m weeping

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you are doing okay and I'll pray for you. I as a person who don't have any experience in this type of situation will try  to give u advice. I hope this helps you. First i want you to feel your emotions and just cry it out because if u don't do that u cannot move on and don't go back to him because your self respect is really important. Don't gather hate upon him because hating someone is gonna drain your energy and i don't want that for you. The first year after the breakup is gonna be really hard but after you cry it out still carry out your day and do things that you enjoy doing normally even if you feel upset trust me this will be a life changer. And again I am really sorry to hear that you went through this.maybe God wanted you to learn something from this situation otherwise he would not make you go through this and I mean this in nicest way as possible i hope that didn't come out rudely. Please recognise it so you won't come face to another problem such as this one. 
With love,
A fellow stranger on the internet