“I was in a relationship back for 3 years but it all ended last month and after every thing he msg me again asking me to come I said no because of his repeated patterns and because of him my mental health is not good and I had faced a lot in this relationship
But I don’t know what I’m doing or dealing with like my health is not okay right know nd me nephew is born last month so work load become heavy for everyone in the house and my family is kind of little orthodox type so
I’m not going to college because of work and my health I have exams coming up next month
I lost faith in god nd myself”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Don't lose hope. If it's draining your energy and affecting your mental health then it's not love. Being with someone for 3 years is a big deal. But you have to accept that you had your time together. It's time to move forward. You're confused about it because it's familiar. And your mind is unsure about what's ahead. So no matter how much it hurts, it's trying to stick to it. Just understand this. Cut the crap, spend more time with your family, take care.
And i repeat, don't lose hope. Good days are ahead.