I was her best friend since 1.5 years nd her only male friend I love her sm nd she cried when i was with her on last day of my school and i even proposed her most nd at the end she said i deserve her nd at the end I left her coz I can't live being her frnd only but after a month i realised I was her only frnd nd I left her too nd I was so ashamed of myself nd i can't let her go through this so I tried contacting her but her instagram is deactivated i even told her through many ppl to activate her insta cos I'm in diff school nd she even said yes she'll activate but it's been a month now nd she still hasn't done that yet I need one last chance pls god someone hear me out

I can't even meet her because of her brother nd i feel like she doesn't like to talk to me anymore was I that bad? Ive fought half ppl of my town for her nd still I think that was never enough pls god show me some sign nd help me out

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I was her best friend since 1.5 years nd her only male friend I love her sm nd she cried when i was with her on last day of my school and i even proposed her most nd at the end she said i deserve her nd at the end I left her coz I can't live being her frnd only but after a month i realised I was her only frnd nd I left her too nd I was so ashamed of myself nd i can't let her go through this so I tried contacting her but her instagram is deactivated i even told her through many ppl to activate her insta cos I'm in diff school nd she even said yes she'll activate but it's been a month now nd she still hasn't done that yet I need one last chance pls god someone hear me out

I can't even meet her because of her brother nd i feel like she doesn't like to talk to me anymore was I that bad? Ive fought half ppl of my town for her nd still I think that was never enough pls god show me some sign nd help me out

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Give time. To her and yourself. Take 7 days. Like a challenge. No texts no calls no reaching no panicking. After that , reach out to her in any way you can. Just nothing creepy or scary. Pour your heart out once and for all. Wanna date her ? Tell her. Just wanna be friends? Be friends. Wanna cut her out? Cut her out. But take a break now. Now. Act after the break. She deactivated prolly because she needed a break. Shes human, you are too. Dont force her or yourself for anything. Even to get a chance to talk to her. Trust me life is very long one day she'll reactivate and you can always message her and share your feelings. "Itll be too late" no it won't be.