Someone once asked...

“I want to study abroad with a scholership but my parents are not supportive, I thought of applying this year but they says that you should prepare for Government teacher's job because next year there will be Mega recruitment for these jobs in my state. I understand that how important it is to get a government job. But I don't want to get stuck in one place that too with government teaching job. I do want to make money, travel, study abroad, see places and write books. I don't know what to do and how to put everything that's going in my head. I'm thinking of preparing for government exam for upcoming months and then to figure of everything coz job and money is very important to me specially if I have to make a choice for myself and support my decisions.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

See if u dont have money right now ... The most logical solution is apply for the government job ... Work for some months and while u r doing that .. apply for scholarship.. write books.. do whatever u want ... And then when u would have enough money and some months experience... U can go abroad and do anything that u want ... I know parental pressure can be overwhelming... And honestly us kids a lot time have resentments bc of their decisions... But in the end its u and your happiness that matters ... Always remember.. Be delusional Cuz according to neuroscience reality is what u perceive cuz our brain can jever actually perceive the original reality.. its always the result of your past .. what u expect in the future and other factors... So my love ... Just believe that its meant for and it will come .. (Okeh i blabber a lot ) Also i am maya If u really wanna find me 😭 cuz i do to u ... My insta is somewhat whocaresgetthehelloutofhwre

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