i want to ask why do i crave for a girl knowing damn well that i am not compatible with her i mean i think i can date her like i know if i ask her she would date me , but here comes the part i am 18 M and i don't want to be in a casual relation , and i know she is the biggest red flag , she dates many guys and shit but but if i date her the only thing is would get is (adult talks or something like that) and you know i don't even know why i can't get her out my mind like she is the most beautiful i have seen and as i am her friend for like a year or something i can't get her out of my mind.

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i want to ask why do i crave for a girl knowing damn well that i am not compatible with her i mean i think i can date her like i know if i ask her she would date me , but here comes the part i am 18 M and i don't want to be in a casual relation , and i know she is the biggest red flag , she dates many guys and shit but but if i date her the only thing is would get is (adult talks or something like that) and you know i don't even know why i can't get her out my mind like she is the most beautiful  i have seen and as i am her friend for like a year or something i can't get her out of my mind.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

dont go for it, youre craving her because of your own problems and you know shes a red flag so dont do it, especially if you dont want casual. Im 18 F and shes just looking for someone to mess around with, and you seem like you might have attachment issues or so, so you should def stay away and avoid getting hurt, know what you want and go for it, not what you clearly dont like, even if ur body and mind says one thing, listen to ur heart.