Someone once asked...

“I wanna breakup with my boyfriend but he was my bestfriend for 3 years and i can't imagine my life without him but he is giving me difficult time and we are not compatible idk what to do i love him but I have to let him go”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Find out what's the problem. From both sides. Discuss it topicwise. If you still don't want to be with him tell him directly. Breaking up because he is giving you difficult time.. and not compatible... These sentences feel like a rushed anxious thought when you two are going through a rough patch. Try to understand what his intentions are if he is actually giving you a difficult time. Or is he in a difficult situation himself. My point is, in order to not have any guilt, do your best to sort things out. Most of the time, if both people want to change for each other they will. But there should be equal effort in making the relationship work. And the relationship works. If you guys love each other then difficult times or incompatibility is not an issue... as long as you both want to make it work because you want to be with each other and no one else. Breaking up immediately is not the solution.

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