Someone once asked...

“I think its better to ask a random page on internet rather than discussing with known ones i want honest advice i’m in long distance relationship from past 4 years when we were 4 months into the relationship i went to different state for my higher studies he stayed back in the beginning he doesn’t want ldr I understand why but i have no choice to keep it short i will pros and cons just suggest me advice me we are good together or not Pros: loyal, very caring especially when i’m busy or occupied with something, protective, will do what i asked even tho he does not agree, give me time and attention Cons: insecurity of me being unfaithful (past experience) sometimes abuse inturn i do it more than him my bad tho here, argues every time when i wanna have trip or fun like concert like something i’m doing my female friends, sometimes i bring a thing it bothers me he will get defensive quick unlike me that fact i hate the most Usually when I’m going in holidays ( only possible time i visit my family and him) he is fine no major issues I don’t know why i love him but he is on nerves nowadays he loves me too but his tone and words impact due to i lose my temper easily say bad in turn.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Express how you feel towards him when he is in a good mood.If he is still hurting you then make a decision.

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Another soul answered...

ldr kitna lamba aur chlega? do you really honestly see a future together with him? can you really live with him in a live in or see yourself marrying him in future? what about him? have you talked about this with him? ldr brings insecurities, underconfidence and a constant fear even if relationship is continuing from years. you are giving less value/undermining those pros which you listed down tbh,i mean what else one can ask in a r.ship if he is still doing those things from past 3-4 years...but i see communication is a gap here you mentioned he is loyal in pros , still you are getting insecure about being unfaithful? maybe problem is with you/due to LDR/older wounds talk and discuss these things - that there is a communication gap/how we resolve our conflicts/whats our attachment style/about our future together majority of the times boys won't focus on 'the way we convey things,its underlying tone,emotions,effect on the listener' we just say things... but here none of you are a patient or a calm person and instead just abusing each other in the heat of moment? usually we dont have to those things which our parnter won't like /break his/her heart..sometimes sacrifice/compromise on some of the things for the sake of a good r.ship/future together

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