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“I think I completely ruined my friendship with my bestfriend and idk if theres even a way to fix this anymore. We've been friends for almost 8 years and recently she started hanging out with some new people. I felt like I was slowly getting replaced but whenever I brought it up she'd just say im overthinking. Eventually I got tired of always being the second option so I stopped texting first just to see if she'd even notice. She didnt. After like 3 weeks I got pissed and sent her this huge paragraph saying how fake she'd become and how I wasted 8 years caring about someone who clearly didnt give a shit about me. She replied saying her mom had been diagnosed with cancer and she was going through alot and hadn't told many people yet. But instead of apologizing I literally accused her of making it up just to make me feel guilty. I genuinely thought she was lying. And yeah thats where I messed up even more. I sent screenshots of our private chats to our mutual friends to show them how she was treating me, including some really personal stuff she trusted me with. Turns out she wasnt lying about her mom. One of our friends showed her everything and she called me crying saying I was the one person she thought would never do something like this to her. I tried saying sorry but she blocked me everywhere. Most of our mutual friends dont talk to me anymore either. Yesterday I found out her mom passed away and I didnt even know she was in the hospital. Bro I genuinely feel sick thinking about it. I keep looking at our old pics wondering how tf I managed to destroy 8 years of friendship in like a month. I know what I did was horrible but a part of me still feels hurt that she ignored me in the first place and idk if that makes me an even worse person. Like do I even deserve to apologize again? Or did I just permanently lose someone who actually cared about me?”

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Another soul answered...

Bro, stop blaming yourself and go be with her. She needs support right now. Even if she isn’t treating you well, take the initiative and care for her. Even if you can’t make her happy, just stay present. The past is behind us—that’s all. I can understand the value you place on her. I’m a stranger who doesn’t know you, yet I’m starting to understand why she can’t. She will, but it will take time. Go wake buddy don’t lose her don’t lose yourself. All the best man, hope you will be with her and she will do good

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