I sometime wonder If I am an avoidant or anxious. Like with my life right now when people come I ended up deciding how will the end come out between us and get anxious what if that person break me cause I am already broken.So even though I love them or like them so so much miss them I act like I don't care.And also doughtBut at some point like oneday suddenly I express myself when I don't get the reponces I was hoping for I get embrassed and process to think about running away.I started to doubt what they are confessing 😭.Then I leave and come back and suddenly I leave them for ever like wtf is wrong with me.

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I sometime wonder If I am an avoidant or anxious. Like with my life right now when people come I ended up deciding how will  the end come out between us and get anxious what if that person break me cause I am already broken.So even though I love them or like them so so much miss them I act like I don't care.And also doughtBut at some point like oneday suddenly I express myself when I don't get the reponces I was hoping for I get embrassed and process to think about running away.I started to doubt what they are confessing 😭.Then I leave and come back and suddenly I leave them for ever like wtf is wrong with me.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Don't think that this person would leave me or I will get hurt again. Just be yourself if u enjoy his/her company and we all have one life only. God send ppl to ur life so that u learn something new everyday. Don't take pressure of life so much. Just enjoy it without making it much complicated and work on urself side by side coz at the end , it's just u who will be with u for lifetime.