“I shared my Sexual abuse experience from uncle, mother and grandfather (unwanted touches that still affect me tho I mostly healed) to my siblings. The way they approached it in an indifferent way, sometimes still supporting uncle and all(for different matters) affected me in a way that now I feel totally detached from my family. My sister jokingly told me once that everything is a trauma for you in a different context. When I asked her about it once, she argued with me.. She is 31 and still shows no emotional maturity. My problem maybe I am expecting things from others.”
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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker
I'm so sorry you had to go through all that and I know there words hurt a lot because I have personally been through similar situation and it's fine you don't feel attached to them anymore family is not by blood it's by love and actions and the way they treated you it shows that the didn't care so if you can and are old enough move out and start your own life and just try to ignore em
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Another soul answered...
it is not unreasonable to expect better than that. your family does not sound worth keeping connected with.