I rlly want to make good frnds n hv a good social life but my communication skills r ass n my relationship is sweet but i feel like hes avoidant but still he doesnt wanna leave me idk wt to do rn n im not able to concentrate on my studies also tbh no one rlly likes me or trusts me as i hv joined new scl its rlly difficult fr me now to make frnds cz ik everyone's character n i wnt company also im feeling rlly stuck wit my emotions ppl cross boundaries alot n say things which hurt me alot i regret living atp i should go kms

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

As cliché as it sounds, you need to work on yourself. first of all work on your communication skills. read books, or watch ted talks, youtube videos to improve your communication skills. its something you can always learn so no need to beat yourself up for that. secondly, you need to KNOW YOURSELF. what are your boundaries, what you like and what you can tolerate etc and STICK TO THEM. dont let anyone cross your boundaries, you must stand for yourself and if you keep on being self respectful, you will see and notice that people will also treat you with respect. love yourself, respect yourself and know your worth. you are worthy of everything you desire and you deserve  all the happiness. tell that to yourself very often.