“I recently had a breakup with my boyfriend after an argument that started over something relatively small but brought up some bigger issues. We were discussing period dates, and when I mentioned that he doesn't remember mine, he brought up his ex having irregular periods, which hurt me. I wanted reassurance, but I don't think I communicated that properly. The next day, he did try to reconnect and was affectionate, but I was still upset and deliberately ignored some of his attempts because I wanted him to understand how hurt I was. Eventually, things escalated, and he got angry. He said he felt unappreciated, that I always put my ego first, and that I repeatedly threatened to leave whenever we had disagreements. I admit I had brought up breaking up around four times before, although I had never actually followed through. During this argument, he repeatedly told me to leave, and when I asked if he was sure, he said yes. I blocked him on WhatsApp and Instagram while he was typing, and neither of us has contacted the other since. It's now been several days, and I'm struggling because I miss him and wish he would reach out, but I also feel that since he was the one who explicitly asked me to leave, he should make the first move if he wants to fix things. At the same time, I've been reflecting on my own behaviour and recognising that I could have handled things differently. I've considered sending him a message acknowledging my part, but I'm conflicted because I don't want to be acting out of guilt, loneliness or fear of losing him. I don't necessarily want to jump straight back into the relationship either; I'd want an honest conversation about what went wrong and whether things could genuinely change on both sides. I honestly don't know whether I should reach out or wait to see if he does.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
After reading the entire thing I feel u dint properly convey ur feelings to him ur anger etc . So ur behaviour really is the reason . U shouldn't threaten with breaking up that hurt him . So u should be the one reaching out and communicate properly . Pls do maybe he's also waiting for you . Do the right thing do not wait