“I recently had a big fight with my boyfriend. It was genuinely my fault, 100% my fault.
We had talked and discussed bout it and now he has said he needs time to come back to how we were before because he is very shóok to the core and is taking time to heal from it and put it behind him and us. This taking time doesn't mean he isn't talking to me or being off/distant.. but more like a little more cautious, little less affectionate than our usual, not tooo frequent texts but I do see him still trying to help us be better soon and I am also doing my side of work so that we both heal and the trust is back again and we are genuinely doing okay then. My conflict is, this time taking of him.. is making me anxious in intervals, really sad that I keep crying all the time.. and somewhere it makes me feel like I am back to that shithole i was in with my ex which I worked so hard to get out of.. i do not blame him at all to take time to heal because I know and I do see too him trying and keeping balance to never make me feel unloved but I also want to stop what I am feeling and genuinely want to be okay and have a balance instead of feeling sad all the time. PLS help. What to do?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
its not your fault, human mind works this way only !!
you just have to trick your mind in believing him and trusting him with all you have !!
this is the time where you need to give your 200% in the relationship, give extra care, extra love and extra efforts !!!