“I met this guy through an online game, and we were friends for three years before getting into a relationship.
We've never met in person, but I genuinely loved him and imagined a future with him.
The biggest problem was always communication because he would disappear for hours, and I often felt like I was waiting for him.
Over time, I also felt that most of our conversations revolved around sex rather than emotional connection.
We broke up in August, got back together after I messaged him, but the same problems eventually returned.
We broke up again because of something he said about feminism. I recently reached out because I missed him, and we started talking again.
But I've now decided to end the relationship for good. I still love him, but I don't think love alone is enough to make this relationship work”
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I dont know everything but one thing i can tell its not love. You definitely love him because of the time u spent together playing games and talking and spending good times make our brain believe we love them. and its alright there is nothing wrong with that but ask yourself a question- Does he care for u? Respect your time and emotions? and apart from sex does he genuinely get excited to talk ABOUT YOU ? And one thing which I as a girl also see is guys being lowkey about feminism or respecting women cus they wanna look cool around their BROS. I just feel they are bunch of unaware uneducated people who dont see the gravity of the situation. personally i would advice to filter those out of you life but its upto you if it works for you then noo problem