Someone once asked...

“I messed a bond so close that we were literally bf and gf like we use to say i love you and i miss you all the time, one day we were doing the same thing but she was serious this so i told her that I don't have feelings for you just bc i didnt want to lose her (In my mind I've always thought that you lose ppl you love when things so wrong and I never wanted to lose her so i could stay all by her side and besides that one more reason I said that bc i think I'm not very handsome and good looking and she doesn't deserve a man like me (this is the main reason btw) ) But yeah things are not very well and it kills me everytime I think of that moment i genuinely love her with all my heart she's the only women i think all the time so yeah please can anyone help me i would be very grateful !!”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

Look Men, your message gave a picture that you are a gentleman in someway and it's natural you feel like that because you think you look ugly but did you tell her how you look ? Then ask and listen to her answer. If she said she has feeling for you even after she knows how you looks then you won in relationship and take care of her everyday but if she doesn't know about your looks then show her and ask her clearly now you love me? If she says no then she wasn't the one for you. Not because she judged you but because she has different priority for looks but you will get answer for your question. No matter how much you overthinker and over analyze relationship you won't get clear answer untill you ask her after showing her your look. Gather a courage and take a shot !!!!! Gentleman 😊🫡. I'll pray for you 😉

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Another soul answered...

Bro you love her man dont let her go plzz treasure her true love is hard to find i know you think its hard and you are not at that position in life where you want to be but still bro no one is perfect just try your best i will say just tell her you love is sorry and all amd try to keep her in your life