“I love my boyfriend a lot and I know that he loves me a lot as well. But we have had constant fights since the last year and we complete 2 years in coming january. We have broken up alot of times but gotten back together because neither of us can stay apart. However, the last fight something shifted. He broke up and I begged him to stay. He did and somehow it feels now like he does not love me as he used to. More than all this, I don't feel like he understands me -- we do have an age gap im 27 and he is 23. I know he loves me but im not sure if he is in love with me anymore and i dont know if i should break up and move on for good or stay and make this work.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
baby talk to him about this and if it doesnt help i can assure you that you will find your person just break up with him because if he was your person you wouldnt feel this way.
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
From my own experience, never beg anyone to stay. It never works out later, they might stay out of sympathy.
If they truly want you, they will come back, no need to beg for love.
Please give him some time, let the wounds heal for few days/months.
If you truly feel he doesn't love you anymore, then you deserve someone who loves you like you do.
I hope things turn out well, but I request you not to lose your self respect.