I liked a guy. Maybe he was just a time pass for me or i was deceived by overwhelming not genuine feelings. I am a teenager. And now he has transferred to another school and still wants to keep contact with me. I have realized that i must focus on my studies. But i can not back down now. My friends will call me cheater and not loyal. what should i do?

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Follow what you think is right, not what other people and think is right. You can always back down. Feelings can change and you don't need to explain yourself if they change.
Try to be nice to other people in general and take there feelings into account but you don't need to do something that feels wrong to you.
If you are transparent with the guy you are no cheater or not loyal. You would be not honest if you continue something you don't want anymore.
Good luck on your way! Don't be to hard with yourself!