“i like a guy . i think he likes me too but again i might be delusional. initially i did not like him because he is not my type but i have been single for 6 years so the idea of us being together did not really escape my mind. From what i have seen, he is a decen t enough guy but he is younger than me .But recently i have found myself finding a reason to justify the flaws i initially used to find in him. I think i have started to like him more than the idea of being in a relationship or being loved . of course i want the later but i want to know more about him. But there is a feeling in my heart that says its not gonna work out and i am going to be hurt in the end so i should not pursue it altogether. I am a person who usually believes in the conventional norm of the guy being older than the girl (i have a rationale : men mature at an older age than women). I also believe in stupid things like fate and destiny and somehow i have this feeling that he is not my person but just a detour. I feel like i will e stripped emotionally naked in front of a person who probably is not even ready to see my scars. And yes i am not proud of having these theories and thinking this way, but I don't think this stands true for anyone but me. And yes, I am a very emotionally intense person so i have to make sure to overthink every possible scenario in my head to not get myself hurt. It happens anyway but atleast i will have a cautionary tale for myself. What should i do?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Make a move, the worst he could do is say no. Right?
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
you should get in touch with him and get to know each other and see if he is at the same level emotionally as you, even if he is not at the same level it can still work out if he is willing to learn new things and abandon his old beliefs