Someone once asked...

“I like a guy and he constantly gives signs that he likes me but im not so sure.He likes my stories,my notes and my posts on instagram.ANd we also study in the same school.But he never ever talks to me irl.He either just gives a look towards me in the corridor and continues talking with his friend.Now there are rumours that a person from my class is dating him but when i asked him he said no they arent.And he's part of a completely different friend group which consists of all the pick me girls.Now i feel like i hv lost interest because there's no way we could end up together. Whenever i try talking to him at school, he ignores me, and for me that's a red flag, but everyone in his class calls him a gentleman.I became fed up so i stopped initiating covos or talking to him.But still,even though i have moved on,i feel conscious when he''s around.And a lot of people who are rumour spreaders know about this.I really do not know how to cope with this situation”

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Look, one thing i can tell you for sure, men like attention. They will do anything to get the attention and be popular. And they will do anything to boost themselves in front of their friends. From a sister to another sister, Dont get attached to him!. I know its easy to say but hard to do. But trust me, I have been there and came out. The struggle is not worth the risk. It's gonna ruin you while not knowing what is happening and where is it leading. I would recommend, u ask him directly if he is in a relationship or not. If he says "yes", then u get ur answer. If he says "no", do not believe it. try to gain information from other sources till u take a decision. As of now, have the mindset of "date to marry". Can u really see him in your future? Can u see urself handing his behaviours? Look, it's all gonna go away in a few months(idk wt u r studying). It's just an infactuation. Don't think too much into it. And do not upfront pursue a guy. It will taken advantage of. You will be taken advantage of. Your feelings/emotions will be taken advantage of. Just have this mindset "If he can't see you for who u r, there will always be someone better out there." Be happy. Stay positive. Keep smiling :)

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