I know i’ve been helping people and I put in time and effort to understand them, I recently broke up with my best friend, we were not having same emotional grounds, and it’s ok, I miss her but i deserve the best out there.

I realised that i’m becoming more distant with people, and a feeling a bit isolated, good things take time but i’d love some advice or suggestions ^^

Question

I know i’ve been helping people and I put in time and effort to understand them, I recently broke up with my best friend, we were not having same emotional grounds, and it’s ok, I miss her but i deserve the best out there.

I realised that i’m becoming more distant with people, and a feeling a bit isolated, good things take time but i’d love some advice or suggestions ^^

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hey I also have been in same situation and  I think we have a same problem but when I realized people don't look on the way we do that makes me feel like it's unwanted to be around them and it will only make you feel more sad being around them  thing used to make us happy back then but when there is conflict and problem in friendship people often try to avoid each other feeling and you are not alone this time will also pass so better focus on yourself instead of asking for validation became best version of yourself nit for other for yourself I hope you met a friend who value youu and yah when we grow up it becomes common . friendship breakup hurts i agree but look if they don't care about you or still they care act accordingly it's your life and you know better things than anyone but value and set boundaries for yourself hey stranger i hope I don't use a harsh word but sharing by opinion and reminding you are nkt alone you can move on from this hope you became what you want in life without regretting things and don't overthink to much wish you a luck may universe bless you with best thing and forget her may new friends fulfill what you want ❤️‍🩹