Someone once asked...

“I know but why is always the looks and sex, that matters to them why not me as a person why not me as a character why is it always the body that matters, i know i really crave sex , everything but I know my priorities and boundaries why not them why is it always me who ends up falling in love this deeply and still ends up being the one left behind? What is so easy about losing me ? Like am I really not worthy of love? Am I that easy to replace? Am I just somebody people enjoy for a while until they find someone better they actually want ? Because I keep giving people everything I have and I still end up feeling like I never gave them one reason to stay And sometimes I just wish I could see myself through their eyes for one second before they leave and finally hear the truth from them What was it about me that wasn't enough? What made staying with me feel like something they couldn't choose? What made them look at everything I have and still feel like walking away was easier????????????”

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Someone answered with kindness...

YOU ARE ENOUGH!!! ok? You are! I felt like that too but enough is enough! Stop focusing on them and look back. You have people who love you maybe not in a romantic way but i will protect you way and I will die for you way. So dont lower your standards! You dont even know how many people feel in love with you on a daily basis and didnt tell you! Stop. Take a breathe. And look around! Or be a queen and love yourself. Get obsessed with yourself that they dont matter! You loving yourself is better than someone who doesn't baby

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Another soul answered...

It is never about you......it is about them and the way they think.....the thing is that you could be the prettiest colour of blue but if thier favourite colour is red we cant do anything about it........we all want to be loved we all want to be cared for and the thing is that someone who will choose us and love us for our soul will come....no matter what.... and we will meet a lot of people all along till we meet The One and it will all make sense, why it didnt work out ,why you got hurt like that.....Never ever think you are unlovable because you are not.....someone who lovws you for your body isnt you soulmate some who loves you for who you truly are is.....we accept the lovw we think we deserve and sometimes we think of ourselves very low .....but trust me the moment you have self love and respect and the momemt you dont wait for someone esle to love you....unexpectedly the person who was the reason all other relationship didnt work out appears in you life....so be patient and love youself and jever think about yourself without respect or love❤️

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