“i have these 2 friends that i do a lot of shit with that i shouldnt, we're all teenagers and i wont say what we do, its not like abd bd stuff but it feels like we might get in trouble, we drink and smoke and borrow and idk it feels like bad influences but im one of them but im trying to change and theyre not. one of them is friends with a guy who assulted her, she literally cheated on her bf while i was there with a random guy, and the other friend was like "no cheatin is only kissing" which i dont agree with. they were making me hangout with some 23 year olds who were into them and im the oldest of them, and i kept saying lets not since i wanted to hangout with them at the mall not some random older men, but they flirted and hugged and wanted to meet again. i was groomed in the past by an older man so it reallly triggered me, and i was put off the whole time, trying to keep us safe, yet they wanna hangout with them again, and these girls are younger than me!! minors! one of the friends isnt as bad as the other, and i like her, but she only wants to hangout mostly as a trio. I wanna drop them. shes also a good liar and im trying to quit smoking and alcohol and stuff but maybe they wotn make it easy. idk what to do i only have them. but one of them is lowk rude to me sometimes.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
i would drop them--they seem like bums who WILL lead you down the wrong path. you have a better future than...them. GOODLUCK!
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Another soul answered...
you need to prioritize your safety in these situations. they do need help but it's not your responsibility to stick around and watch over them. i think you should leave them, even the one you like. im impressed that youre quitting smoking and drinking, that is a difficult thing to do. you seem like a really good person but i think itll mess up your life to stick by these girls.