I have no purpose in life, Nothing feels interesting or worth doing. Yeah sometimes I get inspired seeing other people succeed. But that inspiration is so short lived, that I go back to feeling the same way the next day. I like singing, dancing and cooking and when I do give time to these activities, I am only consistent for a few days. I go for classes but dont practice very often, in class I concentrate and learn well, but when I come home I dont spend time on these hobbies at all. I also feel lonely but hesitate to reach out to my friends. I live with my parents and I'm 21F. I finished my bachelors degree in June and wanted to take time to figure things out and heal from my bad past experiences, so far I have just been wasting time and doomscrolling everyday. I also feel anxious around people outside as I'm very conscious about how I am perceived and I want people to like me. I overthink every interaction where I think I could have done or said something/ done or said something differently. I feel like I'm just lazy and nothing is actually wrong with me, but I genuinely dont even find anything interesting enough to pursue it as a career. I am also very obsessive, I keep jumping from one obsession to the other atp (like a series or a kpop band). I also have no confidence and belief that I can do something well or that I am enough.

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I have no purpose in life, Nothing feels interesting or worth doing. Yeah sometimes I get inspired seeing other people succeed. But that inspiration is so short lived, that I go back to feeling the same way the next day. I like singing, dancing and cooking and when I do give time to these activities, I am only consistent for a few days. I go for classes but dont practice very often,  in class I concentrate and learn well, but when I come home I dont spend time on these hobbies at all. I also feel lonely but hesitate to reach out to my friends. I live with my parents and I'm 21F. I finished my bachelors degree in June and wanted to take time to figure things out and heal from my bad past experiences, so far I have just been wasting time and doomscrolling everyday. I also feel anxious around people outside as I'm very conscious about how I am perceived and I want people to like me. I overthink every interaction where I think I could have done or said something/ done or said something differently. I feel like I'm just lazy and nothing is actually wrong with me, but I genuinely dont even find anything interesting enough to pursue it as a career. I am also very obsessive, I keep jumping from one obsession to the other atp (like a series or a kpop band). I also have no confidence and belief that I can do something well or that I am enough.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

ok buddy chill out i think you should stick to one kpop band (Aespa) and find comfort in that