i have no one to relieve on. i thought finally i got that person, but my bestfriend is behaving like others. he is using me when he needs or otherwise ... idk if being delusional. but i am feeling alone in a room full of ppl.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

A few things I'd genuinely suggest:
1. Stop chasing attention for a while. Not to punish Nisha or your best friend, but to give yourself room to breathe.
2. Observe, don't assume. Notice whether your best friend makes an effort to talk to you even when they don't need anything.
3. Communicate once, honestly. Tell them how you feel instead of silently carrying everything.
4. Don't apologise just to keep someone close. Apologise when you genuinely feel you've made a mistake.
5. Build connections outside these two relationships. You deserve friendships where you can feel comfortable, included and appreciated. ....

You are the best , you were best and you will be best

“i have no one to relieve on. i thought finally i got that person, but my bestfriend is behaving like others. he is using me when he needs or otherwise ... idk if being delusional. but i am feeling alone in a room full of ppl.”