Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Please don't think that there's something wrong with you just because things haven't worked out yet. ❤️ I know how exhausting it must feel to keep hoping, trying, and sometimes even changing little parts of yourself just to be liked by someone. But you shouldn't have to become someone else to be loved. The right person won't make you feel like you have to earn their affection or constantly prove that you're worth choosing. You'll be able to be yourself, with all your imperfections, and still feel wanted. And please don't let the absence of a relationship make you question your beauty, your heart, or your worth. Being loved isn't an achievement that everyone else has unlocked while you're somehow falling behind. You haven't missed out on anything, and you're not difficult to love. You just haven't met someone with whom it feels right yet. Until then, please don't lose yourself trying to become someone's ideal girl. You deserve to be loved as you are. ❤️
Another soul answered...
Being in a relationship is a beautiful thing but it comes with its pros and cons. Most of the reasons conflicts in relationships are caused due to not feeling enough for the other person and hence changing yourself go fit the standards that you think your partner might want in you. It is natural for you to want to mould yourself so the other person will like you but that is exhausting and will take away a bigger part of you. Give yourself some recognition before someone else does be comfortable just being yourself. Love is not only a romantic attraction between individuals but also self love that we need to give ourselves.
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Another soul answered...
GIIRRRRRLL ! I was the same. I used to change myself to make myself liked, whether it was in friendship or in love, and it's the worst mistake I ever made. Because I was never myself with anybody, and with time I just forgot who I was. That's when I realised that wasn't life and that wasn't the reason I wanted people to love me. I mean why would you want to change yourself to be loved. If you do that, the other person will love a non existing version of yourself and with time you'll feel like you're not loved enough or that he doesn't love you for who you are. I'm pretty sure that you're an amazing person. And most of all, don't forget that you're unique in this world, nobody is like you. That also means that a special person in this world waits to love you for who you are. I believe in the fact that God made people to suit to each other, so don't doubt that someone is waiting for you out here. And he waits for you and not for the one you invented for him to love you. And, don't ever forget that the most important person that you have to love is you. It's the best investment that you'll ever make. Love yourself first and you'll see. Your perspective will change and you won't try anymore to make yourself loved by changing yourself according to their taste. It's not useless, it's time. Everything will happen on your own timing. Maybe it's for tomorrow, or for next year, but it will happen, and it will happen in the most beautiful way. I send you a lot of loooveeee !
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