I have loved her since the last 5 years of my life, We were even together for 8 months but she broke up because of some reasons. It has been 10 months since the breakup, we are still best friends, but i really really love her.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

man i think you just have to give yourself time and allow yourself to feel everything without constantly trying to make sense of it or force yourself to move on
 you've loved her for five years and obviously that's not something you can just switch off because things didn't work out between you two and i don't think you should feel guilty about still loving her either 
sometimes people leave relationships but the feelings don't just leave with them and that's okay its completely normal

i genuinely believe that one random day you'll wake up and realise that something feels different maybe you'll think of her and it won't hurt the way it used to or maybe you'll go an entire day without feeling that ache in your chest and you probably won't even notice when it happens so don't rush yourself into being okay and don't make yourself feel like you're doing something wrong by still having feelings
just accept them for what they are and let yourself experience them
you don't have to figure everything out right now
things will fall into place eventually and i promise you that life has so much more waiting for you than the pain you're feeling right now

“I have loved her since the last 5 years of my life, We were even together for 8 months but she broke up because of some reasons. It has been 10 months since the breakup, we are still best friends, but i really really love her.”