I have known this friend of mine since 2020, and we have been really close ever since. But ever since she moved to another state for work, she has changed a lot. We have a group of four, including her, and lately, she has been making subtle, sarcastic remarks and saying a lot of rude and mean things to each one of us, sometimes seemingly without even realising how hurtful they are.

There was one incident when my best friend, who also likes me, bought me a Coach bag. He has also given me many other gifts on different occasions, not just the bag. I was telling our group about it, and she suddenly commented, "Oh, and you give nothing in return, right?"

Another thing I noticed is that she copied my tattoo, keeping almost the exact same placement, although hers is a smaller version with a few modifications. She even admitted herself that we have almost the same tattoo.

At this point, I'm genuinely confused about how I'm supposed to react or behave around her because, knowing all of this, I just can't act the same way I used to with her. I feel like something has changed, and I don't know how to deal with it anymore.

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I have known this friend of mine since 2020, and we have been really close ever since. But ever since she moved to another state for work, she has changed a lot. We have a group of four, including her, and lately, she has been making subtle, sarcastic remarks and saying a lot of rude and mean things to each one of us, sometimes seemingly without even realising how hurtful they are.

There was one incident when my best friend, who also likes me, bought me a Coach bag. He has also given me many other gifts on different occasions, not just the bag. I was telling our group about it, and she suddenly commented, "Oh, and you give nothing in return, right?"

Another thing I noticed is that she copied my tattoo, keeping almost the exact same placement, although hers is a smaller version with a few modifications. She even admitted herself that we have almost the same tattoo.

At this point, I'm genuinely confused about how I'm supposed to react or behave around her because, knowing all of this, I just can't act the same way I used to with her. I feel like something has changed, and I don't know how to deal with it anymore.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I have also faced the same issue….. sometimes it happens because universe want you to let go of those people who doesn’t fit your circle anymore trust me she changed because external factors but at last she changed that’s a huge red flag soo I repeat universe wants you to let go cut the connection then only you will be rewarded with newer circle or people!
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