“I have feelings for 3 people at my high school. I'm good friends with all of them, but I don't know if I should just let it develop naturally or start taking some action. One of them is an old friend since middle school and they're really smart and I always enjoy talking with them about fun nerdy stuff. The second one is someone I met last year and they're really kind and always compliment something about me, and I always appreciate their personality. The last one is someone I met last year too and they're always joking around with me and they like to mess with me in a fun way. I feel like all of them could be the one, but what do I do about it?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Have fun, be nervous, feel all the emotions, the question isn't which of the 3 guys is your soulmate, instead of is how you decide to move forward. It feels super intense right now and that's the fun part but your real partner won't come from a nerdy connection or compliments, it will come later when you know more about yourself. I'm the mean time have fun and be safe
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
Stay best friends. I just don't wanna stir up conflict or anything.
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Another soul answered...
just wait and see
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Another soul answered...
You can still be friends with the rest if you date one, but before you do, I'd recommend picking out the one with the most positive traits. Single out one that you think will stick by you and treat you well.