“I have been talking to a guy from the past 7 months online and till now we never met .we have got so close these months that now even one day without texting feels like dying. We behave like a couple but without any tag . Even i have asked him for a label for us but he said he is not ready for a relationship because he has his ex trauma but i needed a relationship so i ak compromising that need maybe someday he will give us a title and he said he is trying really hard for US . if i try to keave , he dont let me nor do i feel good withouf him . He said his health is getting so much better with me and his insomnia is reducing too . So i do believe it . But i am little bit confuse so guys can anyone please tell me your point of view on this . Should i wait or what . I dont know about him but i do love him.i can do anything for him.”

Another soul answered...

In my opinion, you have to let him go. He isn't allowing you to go because he is alone and hasn't moved on from his ex and needs someone to fill that void, you may feel sympathy to him for that but please don't because it will only cost you your mental health .

Another soul answered...

Sounds like any other situationship to me . Sorry to say it like this but most of the time this kind of ship drowns :) Let me tell you my story if it helps then I would love that - there was once a guy I met on bumble , he seemed nice , he cared enough , he told me things that you share with your partner , we even agreed to met but that time I refused and said we will go later . He accepted that , he even sent me the location he wants to visit with me . We talked on phone a lot of voice messages . But one day everything changed he started acting distance , I was worried , i cried that he must not love me anymore ( his signals indicated that he loved me , idk the reality) After ghosting and him commenting on a post he thought where I went on a date with another guy , showing me proofs that he was sick so I still be stuck with him ( I didn't went on a date btw) after 2-3 months of ghosting me I confessed him my feelings he was talking in circles , my best friend ( f) told him to answer me straight he said if you are asking then tell her I said no . I was too stunned to feel anything , I knew everything still I didn't . Then in September his b'day came and I even wished him but things didn't started . Then after months i tried starting normal conversation but he was too rude to me I understood that I was irritating him . So, i closed the case with a last message even after few months from nov. Well that was my story all I wanna say is you do need a lable or some assurance at least try meeting then you can feel the love he is mentioning and girl belive me if things go south you will be okay 🤍

Another soul answered...

Umm honestly,take a break.. like ik you rlly like him and everything but some time away from him would give u space to feel better without doubting things between yourself and it would also make him understand your value and maybe thn he would confess his actual feelings.Make it clear tht u need a proper answer regarding your feelings so tht you won't hv to feel confused and lost.