I have been in a relationship for a year now,(long distance one) the start was very rocky he hurt me multiple times, kept making same mistakes, told me he would improve but he didn't even know what was wrong. After i hit rock bottom 8 months in I asked for a break and he said I'll come to u when I am a better person for you. He came back after 3 days and he was different, he did change for the better( my question was how did he do it in just 3 days when I have been begging him for 8 months) Anyways now he is trying to love me but I feel like I'm too broken and hurt to respond to his love. I don't know what to do

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

DO NOT accept his love.Someone cannot change within a span of days,they will atleast take a month to become a better version of themself.Never ever go back to someone who hurt u too many times because they will keep hurting you. everyone should know what they're worth.There's a limit to everything.And when itss long distance,u never know the other persons pov and there's a lot of positive and negative sides to that.I really think you should be calm and reconsider the status of your relationship.If i was in your shoes,the second time he breaks my heart i would break up and ignore or block or do everything i can to keep myself away from him.A heart that is broken multiple times will not have the ability to heal anymore.