Someone once asked...

“I have been in a relationship for 6 years with this girl. She already had a boyfriend back when we were in school but somehow she broke up. I had feelings for her and we were best friends. So afrer her breakup, she obviously turned to me. We were together for 6 years but in the month of july 2026, we broke up. She cheated on my in june with her school friend and she told me that on her own. She said i love you so much and thats why i cant do anything wrong to you. You deserve better. I was too needy and fell in my own eyes. I asked her to stay and that we will make it better. But i was a fool. She broke up with me and now she is in a relationship with the guy who she cheated on me with. Its been around 3-4 months since then but i still think of her sometimes. What do i do? I miss the connection i had. I dont like being alone. I have friends who supported me a lot and parents who helped me during this phase. But i still find myself lost in her thoughts sometimes. What do i do to make it better? I need some words that may make me feel that i am best the way i am. I dont need any girl. Or maybe i will get someone better. I dont miss her. But i sure do miss the connection. Its been 3 months of no contact and i dont wanna break it. Tell me something that may make me forget her completely....”

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Try reading books or just hang out with friends you'll feel relaxed or just hit the gym. But one thing don't try to look everything from your past POV