“I have been in a relationship for 5 years. it is very healthy. I'm not being delusional when i say so either. All that is wrong is probably we just need to communicate a bit more. Anyway, i want to get married and he says he doesn't know. I've been the one to bring up marriage the last few times. He doesn't really talk about it otherwise. I hate to bring it up again because it has always ended up on a negative note because i cant seem to understand why he doesn't know if he wants to marry me after 5 years. What should i do? i don't want to waste anymore time but i love this guy, he is definitely the one.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
march your lil ass right up to his door and tell that mofo to get his act in line. look him in his weenie little eyes and say "i wanna marry your ass. if it is taking you this long to know if you want to get married, it seems i am not the one. give me a direct and clear response if i am right or not. i cant keep going on unknowing. if you think we still have things to figure out, then you should have told me right when you thought them. i could be having babies by now. you are threatening the hospitability of my womb!"
If he does not respond or gives the same answer leave his ass.