Someone once asked...

“I have been feeling so insecure. And I don't know how to change it. I have gained a lot of weight these past few months and I want to lose it but Idk how to. I hate going to school. All my friends are skinny and pretty I just hate it. I hate how big i look compare to them and ik they talk behind my back and how "grateful" they are to have me cause if I wasn't there how else would they know they are skinny. I hate it. I hate every second of it. I just wanna lose weight. But I can't bring myself to do it. I will always regret what I eat but just can't stop. How do I do it?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

First of all u are beautiful just the way you are. NEVER think that just because you eat a lot or just because u have gained weight you are ugly. Food is the energy our body needs to process everything. A lot of us have been gifted with perfectly fuctioning bodies that not everyone has so please darling appreciate ur fully functional body. U wanna lose some weight there is no harm in that, there are plenty of apps which curate 30min workouts for u according to ur needs for free just search on Google play store or the apple one and start working out and if u want u can also join a gym. Don't restrict your diet just exercise a little bit and move ur body. Go for a walk if you don't wanna exercise. Just please don't hate yourself. Also respectfully if ur "friends" talk behind ur back then they are not your friends. Run from them girl.

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Another soul answered...

Oh dear i can literally feel that,first of all,the ones that's bodyshaming u aren't really ur friends as they said they just want someone to compare so they can feel pretty themselves.gaining weight is a completely normal thing.and start loving ur own body the way it is.just because ur friends are skinny that doesn't mean u aren't pretty, believe me every soul on this earth is beautiful including u💗if u genuinely wanna lose weight, go for it,but accept every part of ur body the way it is and try to be confident bout urself. I'll say u can see someones beauty just by seeing how confident they are with themselves.

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