“I have bad feeling about my love life in general i have never dated anyone ,if someone shows some kind of interest or even is slightly flirtatious i withdraw myself from them i don't like the feeling,i always feel like I'll get played or i feel like i won't be happy in that relationship, even with crushes if i like someone from a long time i would always wish they also have some kind of interest in me but as soon as they do somehow show interest i completely disappear, my feelings go away idl whats wrong with me i know I'm avoidant for sure but i don't know how to change”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Samee. I think I also go through intimacy issue and like being avoidant. But sometimes you have to listen to your guts carefully. You should love people and accept the love you get from all around you. This world need more love. So don't get scared or anything be careful tho but it's okay don't let that fear overpower you that something bad is going to happen. Let yourself be a little free it's not that serious. Soon who knows you might find a perfect partner for you.