“I have a friend who i feel drained after talking to her. She doubts everything I say and would say "no" first, then repeats what i said. As if we are in a competition of who is right and who's wrong. It's exhausting. This happens a lot, especially when im talking to her. I am the type who finds it hard to express myself, and that makes it worse. Also, I am a perfectionist, so the over correcting makes me even more self-conscious and wary about what I am saying.”

Another soul answered...

First listen to her why she is saying "no" in the first place what's triggering her and try not to emotionally depend on her for sometime and let her do her thing, you can't control other people's behavior and also understand that ur energy is very important for u at the end of the day. I don't say distance yourself from her completely. Try to communicate with her if she isn't understanding your feelings then let go with analysing her patterns and you can stop investing your time in arguments. I hope you are doing well.

Another soul answered...

It must be really frustrating and overwhelming 😞. Tbh this isn't good for your mental well being. I would suggest opening up about your feelings to that friend? If that's not possible then maybe it's best you to cut them off not completely but gradually. Yk what I mean? And listen to me, Nothings wrong with you! You are amazing as you are! It's okay to be a perfectionist as long as it isn't being a hinderence in your relationships or friendships. Okay? So keep your head high and never doubt your self!

Another soul answered...

I think it is better to try creating a distance with people who drain your energy rather than suffering.