“I have a close friend that I have a crush on. Early this year, he had a situationship with someone at that time, I couldn't say anything but watch him from a distance and encourage him and congratulate him, but it didn't work out. At that time, It was affecting me so much that I couldn't even study but I acted like nothing happened. Now in oct, he started talking to his old schoolmate who came as a junior in our college and he said the girl is getting close to him. I m face with the same situation and it's really affecting my mental health. It really is affecting me again when I see them pass by each other in the hallway, when I think about them messaging each other. I don't want him to like her or anything. I don't want history to repeat again me watching from a distance. Today I m thinking of confessing to him so that I get to tell him how I really feel but I m also scared of the aftermath too becoz we are in the same class and our roll no. Is also near. What if it gets awkward, what if I lose the friendship also. But I m still hoping he likes me too”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I think u should tell him. What if he also has a crush on u, u never know. If u don't do this now in future u will regret it that what if i confessed that time only. The aftermatch of the confession we can face later. Atleast u will be honest with urself.Go girl u can do it all the best. Update me later about this.✨️♥️