“I have a boyfriend. Big deal. Im happy. But i cant help but feel like im going to ruin it all or that it’s just not going to last. I love him and we have been dating for 5 months. This is my longest relationship ever. I dont want to mess this up. What do i do..?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Ask them questions, test the waters, you will find yourself more and more comfortable with them, and vice versa. Go slow and you will not mess it up.