“i have a bestfriend who ive been close to for a while and shes one of my bestest friends infact my 1st priority. she recently got a bf and it messed me up. smth which shouldnt even affect me is affecting me. we both never had a bf before and i never thought she would get one before me. and im so jealous. she never even wanted one but she got one overnight when she didnt even want one and she got it so easily whereas i wanted one for ages and all i get is guys who never like me back. im really jealous because she gets everything i want. ive always wanted a fun friend group she already has one but she got more when she didnt even require it. she has everything i want and i hate her for it. but again shes my bestfriend i shouldnt feel this way. idk its really affecting me and im forcing myself to compete with her”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I understand this feeling FAR too well. What I did is I tried not to let it get to me. If you feel jealous of her, maybe you should bring it up with her and be clear instead of letting these negative feelings fester? The right person will come along, I promise.
I wish you luck, and remember that you aren't unlovable. There's 8 billion people on this plant, one of them are for you.
- Juno <3