“I have a best friend Meena who has a lot of best friends and most importantly one girl she could do anything for her..she talks about her to me all the time..I feel good for her but at the same time I think I deserve a best friend too..yes im kinda jealous but that's fine so now Meena is sooo kind hearted but rudest to close people..she has always been rude to me but occasionally says good things to me like how she's lucky to have me so its mixed signals and I fall for it every time..I love her but can't take it sometimes..when I say that hurt me she makes another joke on me.. but when I say things like I dont have anyone she doesn't say im there for you..instead again tries to debate with me that im lying and I have a lot of friends(she knows that's not true) and she yaps with me..meets me without me initiating first when I try to yap back she listens rarely and gets kinda irritated..thats not her fault because im a bad storyteller she's so straight forward unlike me I think im just a random ass friend for her timepass but I like listening to her talk now I wanna know if I am the problem or her”

Another soul answered...

but I can't stop talking to her and she cares about me and asks whenever she doesn't her from me (we talk everyday)

Another soul answered...

I can't give u a definite answer but u are not a problem for her. I think she just need someone to listen to her worries or her happiness but not be a part of it. And that is exactly u for her. Would be better if you move on. It is better not to get hurt, chose yourself, trust yourself , love yourself. I know everyone says this but trust me this works. Afterall life is all about lessons. Life has better plans for you trust it.

Another soul answered...

i don't think either of you guys are a 'problem', i'd say its just that you guys are not as compatible as friends as you might think. we all have vastly different traits and habits and behaviours, now who might matc that perfectly, we don't know. but if you really do feel like she genuinely treats you bad and is rude to you mostly and if you dont necessarily like it, you could have a conversation with her, but this would require you both to actually be serious and mature and not goof around or brush the topic and if after the conversation she does not change her behaviour towards you, and you genuinely feel worse and worse everytime you guys talk, drop her as a friend. you'll find people who'll be just what you need. losing one friend is not the end of the world.