“i hav a female friend who i used to call my didi (elder sister). we were extremely6 close t5o each other sharing every singe detail from personal problems to even intimate conversation but there was nothing sexual between us. it was all fun until one day on 23rd oct 2026, when i made a comment on her body. the thing is she was zipping up her jacket and i just said teasingly "abhi jannat dikh jata" (almost saw heaven). Right after that incident she warned me not to call her didi anymore ang boundad she doesnt considers me as her younger brother. Ever since that incident she has been setting boundaries with me like she has stopped talking about her personal problems and also she gets angry very soon. she no more tolerates jokes on her from me. I am sad and guilty what should i do now. I dont want her to leave me and i still value her, i dont see her sexually. The way she talks to me has changed as well. I feel so bad for myself for saying that because that thing has ruined our sweet brother and sister relationship. I feel like crying everyday but i cant, i dont have tears to shed.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
First apologise and tell her watever u feel openly just like the message
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Another soul answered...
First of all
Ur an idiot
Pervert person
Who says like that broo
Secondly
U hv developed feelings for her
Don't lie to yourself
Ur just worried that u will lose her
To a girl when guys says like that it feels so disgusting and scary
Thats why she is maintaining distance
She thought she gave to linence and u idiot miss used it
To girl her body is precious
Sacred, respect etc..
Saying like that its hurts
Anyways im a girl so I can understand her
Sorry if i offended you