“I had/have a girlfriend and bestfriend. I am not sure if they r still my friends but yeah. So my girlfriend is probably the best person on earth, like we were childhood friends turned lovers, and yeah it happned what always happens, god probably tried to test us, we were seperated ( like she moved to a new office/class ) and their she found my bestfriends. They were already friends too but not that good. And slowly, they became each others close friends - bestfriends probably idk. And yeah, they started flirting, holding hands sometimes, and making promises to each other like i will not leave u till the end of time ( this is from their bestfriend agreement that they signed after i got angry on her because of what they were doing ), no relationship, distance, or another friendship will come between us and all And yeah i kept crying, i mean what could i do. If u truly love someone, i think that u hesitate a bit before doing such things but their is no hesitation at all in her. So yeah i was like yeah watever, and one night, we were at a bday party, and yeah i was unable to meet my gf very often so i met her, and we hugged, but then she had to go and stuff. So that night, it was my fault i opened her snapchat, and i saw their convo, and my bestfriend said like comeon bro i had to hug u why did u go, and she replied that i had to hug u too but my boyfriend (me) came in between but its okay and they were saying i love u to each other and yeah i mean, i was devasted. Things are different now, we fought many times, i cried, etc. She thinks that i am still her bf and she still loves me with my whole heart but i mean i dont think, she really loves me, like she loves me, but everytime i think about her, their is a war going on between me and me ( like my heart and my mind ). They both are still bestfriends i dont know if they flirt or hold hands now but yeah, their were differences among us. Then luckily we 3 were in the same office/class and yeah i wont go or talk to them when they were together, and she would always give him like sometime daily, even after knowing that i was waiting for her, like i kept seeing them from far away and yeah idk man. Its complicated. I dont know what i should do. She loves me and cares for me now, but she has built a deep relationship probably more better than ours with my bestfriend ( or was my bestfriend ). I dont know if i should just tell her that i dont think its gonna work out. Cause i dont wanna live in this confusion. Pls someone help mee!!”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Heyy buddy breathe what you are facing I know it's tough but I'll let you know one thing you youself making one tough situation for yourself because yk what when someone loves you I bet and swear to god taking my own example I won't look at the other guy because why would I if you gf truly loved you and if she has thought you're her one she never would've got with anyone Okayy so the thing is she doesn't love you this is not love my dear this is not I know you're a very good person you genuinely deserve more than this shitt but first of all leave her she isn't the one for one of she would've loved you then she wouldn't have left you like this. And you really need to change some of your friends because they are definitely not your friends in a life we all got by luck and chance like your parents siblings etc but friends and love is the thing you choose for yourself and I def know you shouldn't choose something this low leave them and let them know what they lost a beautiful friend like you and love will eventually come again to your life one that because something good is waiting for you at the other side of the coin...... I hope you realise that you're worthy of a garden not a dried rose❤️❤️.... I hope life remains kind to you and give you everything you deserve more than that girl and more than those friends...
Difficult times may come but always remember we should breathe in breathe through breathe with it and breathe out... Sending you more love🩷🩷🩷