I had a guy frnd who had rejected me and blocked me from every socials as he said there can’t nothing be like that happen between us. Now after a year he came back tried for 1.5months behaved normal like we were talking day and night like nothing had happened and all then suddenly he stepped back. I had told him, “Don’t you think I deserve a explanation he said he will say after meeting. He didn’t add me on socials , don’t even want to meet me and now he suddenly acts cold no text nor anymore yes he does replied very cold if possible.
But not instantly. When I asked what happend and told him let’s start over forgetting everything and start a fresh frndship . Then he said he needs time . He is been meeting other people, using socials doing everything but even after so long, he didn’t give any explanation. What should I do? Should I proceed to wait for him to give him a chance to hear what how long should I wait cause it’s been 2weeks. I don’t want to lose him either because we had many good memories but his behavior isn’t acceptable. If he wasn’t sure why he came back to reach me out?

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Okay so first of all I am so sorry you had to go through all that and your questions are valid but I want to let you know that such a behaviour is completely unacceptable and you shouldn't wait for him. He doesn't deserve a chance because you deserve someone who is actually there for you. Now imagine if you guys were married and he repeated the same behaviour. He promised something to you and broke it? How will you feel? Basically he isn't a man of his words and is unsure about you and when someone is unsure you should let them be. That's such an immature behaviour. You don't want to lose him because you are scared that you will never feel that way again (I am not sure if that's the accurate reason of your worry) but I can assure you that if you let this one go someone much better will enter your life. He came back because he is taking you for granted and you shouldn't let him enter your life again if he repeated the same pattern 🫶🏻I hope you understand and take my words seriously and never ever give a man, second chance. He is likely to repeat it again and you will be hurted and one day you will be fed up of him behaviour and end up leaving him by yourself